Conversation with a child in the family in the perspective of future educators
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Faculty of Educational Studies, Adam Mickiewicz University in Poznan [Wydział Studiów Edukacyjnych Uniwersytetu im. Adama Mickiewicza w Poznaniu], Szamarzewskiego 89, 60-568 Poznan, Poland
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Faculty of English, Collegium Heliodori Swiecicki, Adam Mickiewicz University in Poznan [Wydział Anglistyki, Kolegium Heliodori Święcickiej, Uniwersytet im. Adama Mickiewicza w Poznaniu], Grunwaldzka 6, 60-780 Poznan, Poland
Submission date: 2021-10-19
Final revision date: 2021-11-30
Acceptance date: 2021-11-30
Publication date: 2021-12-22
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Kinga Kuszak
Wydział Studiów Edukacyjnych Uniwersytetu im. Adama Mickiewicza w Poznaniu, Szamarzewskiego 89, 60-568 Poznań, Polska
Kinga Basińska
Wydział Anglistyki, Kolegium Heliodori Święcickiej, Uniwersytet im. Adama Mickiewicza w Poznaniu, Grunwaldzka 6, 60-780 Poznań, Polska
Wychowanie w Rodzinie 2021;24(1):47-60
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ABSTRACT
Introduction. Interaction skills are important elements of socialization activities undertaken
by adults with regard to the child. A conversation between a parent and a child is
an asymmetric relationship that differs due to the level of communicative competences of
the participants of the conversation ( Rostańska, 2010, p. 62). The competences of both
the child and the adult differ. The responsibility of an adult is to start a conversation with
a child about an interesting topic, exchange on mutual matters and problems, while creating
conditions for the child to reveal his/her own points of view, opinions, and beliefs.
Parents create an atmosphere of equality that is conducive to openness and confi ding ( Harwas-
Napierała, 2008, p. 25). The article deals with the issue of the conversations of an
adult (a parent/a caregiver) with a child from the perspective of pedagogy students.
Aim. The aim of the research is to answer the following research questions: What time
do students of pedagogy consider the most appropriate for an adult-child conversation?
What topics, according to the students of pedagogy, should parents include when having
conversations with their children? What style of conversation with the child do the future
educators consider the most desirable?
Method. The authors presented material from the survey research with the use of a questionnaire
in which 255 female pedagogy students participated. The research was conducted
from December 2019 to January 2020.
Results. According to the students of pedagogy, the conversation between the parent/caregiver
and the child should take place in a partnership, in a direct way when the child
needs it and signals the need. It should be conducted in a partnership manner, regardless of the situation and external circumstances. An attentive and sensitive adult should be able
to perceive the manifestations of the communication need signalled by the child and react
by initiating a dialogue. Conversations should focus on issues and matters important to
the child, everyday issues, as well as topics attractive and pleasant to the child. However,
diffi cult issues should not be avoided when talking to a child. The surveyed students considered
honesty as the most important feature of the conversation between a parent and
a child. They also highly rated the atmosphere of peace, the ability to focus attention on the
child, a serious approach to the interlocutor, openness, and clarity of messages formulated
by an adult. Among the important features of the conversation, they indicated linguistic
correctness, adult patience, care for the child, and adapting the form of expression to the
age, needs and capabilities of children.
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